Posts by Brenda Goburn-Smith
This will be a Different Holiday for All of Us
No need in belaboring the reality of the impact of the pandemic on everyone during 2020. Know that life is full of change; we will recover because we are resilient people. Holiday celebrations and family gatherings will be different. We may have to get creative. Connecting with our families may have to be by phone…
Read MoreTip #1 for Writing a Letter to Your Grandchildren
PLAN YOUR STRATEGY – Be clear on your intent Terrific! Your letter will be a special treat. There are several things to consider before you put pen to paper. This will not be a novel-length letter. What will be the focus of your letter? The holidays – are different this year but still a…
Read MoreGrandparents: Write a Letter to Your Grandchildren for the Holidays
Time seems to fly by, so you don’t want to miss the precious opportunity to share your wisdom with your grandchildren. Write them a letter of encouragement with your hopes for a wonderful life for them. Talk about how you appreciate and love them, and want the best for them. Children are coping with our…
Read MoreWill the Real You Please Stand Up?
Still in your seat, confused about who you are now? Has your self-portrait changed? Good for you if you can articulate a clear answer. For most of us, we have not added updates to our perception of that bright-eyed person we were 20-30 years ago. Some of us are still trying to live up to…
Read MoreI Still Want to be Fit and Fabulous, What About You?
Believe me, I am realistic about my changing physical boundaries. No longer able to energetically do as much as I did in years past, now I pace myself and still do more than most people. However, I am comfortable in my own skin and definitely want to look fabulous in my jogging suit or cocktail…
Read MoreWhy Are You Constantly Dipping Into Your Retirement Savings Even Though You Planned for a Dream Lifestyle?
Sure, there have been some unexpected changes in the economy. Still, you had calculated for that when you set up your 401k retirement plan. The way things are going, you will be in financial straits soon. There will always be something to take you off course; mortgage payments, the dryer will stop working, the roof…
Read MoreFix the “Typos” That Block Your Success
Typos are generally small unintended misspellings. Usually, typos show up in your writing or typing, changing meanings, or confusing words. However, in life, tiny misses confuse your outcomes. In your mind, intentions and destinations are known, but somehow unproductive habits can lead to missed goals and personal improvements. Introducing purposeful habits can lead to success.…
Read MoreWhen the Bottom Drops Out of Your World – How Do You Find Your Way Back?
Your life can be moving along smoothly on many levels. The future can look rosy, then everything can change in a moment. You could face disaster, disease, or discouragement, a significant setback. When thrown off your normal life’s course, the looming question is how to get back to a predictable routine or a better position.…
Read MoreReframe Your Mindset to Overcome Setbacks & Obstacles
When thrown off your normal life’s course, the looming question is how to get back to a predictable routine or a better position. People usually overcome setbacks and obstacles successfully with diligent efforts. The good news is there are a few things you can do to recover and turn an obstacle or challenge into an…
Read MoreClaim the Life You Crave
The dance of life is unscripted. If fortunate enough to have a plan, realize that no action plan is foolproof; many are fraught with stumbles and false starts. Even when tempted to give up, with futility looming large, it is easy to become convinced of potential doom from the challenge that has befallen your plans.…
Read More